Rapport is all you need   there is a thing that is called `Rapport`… it is the perfect Tango…. the ability to relate to others in a way that creates trust and understanding… and to make sure the others relate in that way to you it is not just a skillset… it is an...

Simple difficult   Simply difficult The fragility of life lies in every child’s eye. The love and softness. Unimaginable they say to imagine what others feel or think… Mean whilst our body reacts physically with the same posture, hormones, neuro transmitters and...

the book about the prostate is coming   Robert Moore and Douglas Gilette talk about rediscovering the archetypes of the mature Masculine Their means to that end are the roles of Love King Warrior Magician It is the title of their book. It does not surprise us...

Afscheid 22 Goodbye Farwell Abschied   Be idiotic Who has your remote control? Who or what did determine your moves and desicions Lifes walk ? A pittyful society dominated by media Politicians, religious “leaders”? Music? Writers? Money? The family? Who or what...

afscheid 21   A deeply rooted believe in me Made me an observer I must have been 12 or even younger A voyeur if you want to call it that the believe was and Is that I cannot connect to anybody I just did not and mostly do not a want it the good news is that I...

Afscheid 20   There are people who run… they feel they have to Important is that they realize they have a home to come back to… not only collecting ‘new fish’ but valuing the existing In L.A., Anaheim to be precise, Hans said: ‘Everywhere you go there YOU are’....

afscheid 19   Hoe lief’lijk de stem. Hoe zacht de ziel…. Mijn hond kijkt mij aan… Van Morrison zingt zacht op de achtergrond…..iets dichterbij….. Handel’s dixit Dominus kan dat Bach overtreffen…? Een oma neemt tijd alles waar te nemen….terwijl zij zich in de tuin...

afscheid 18   Stil Rien….. was t prachtige zinnetje van Louis xvi Louis XVI, the Royal Hunt and Bastille Day When Louis XVI wrote in his diary Rien (“Nothing”) on July 14, 1789, it did not mean that the King was oblivious to the events in Paris. On the contrary...

The big goodbye in the now 17   Hallucinations We can go back far further…. But a fine example is …George Herbert Mead’s symbolic interactionism theory…. The humans struggle to live in the now…. Whilst they often see the now overruled by habitual behavior system...

Afscheid 16   De zachtheid ervaren door avonden-, nachten lang ….lopend… zittend… liggend in het gras onder de sterrenhemel… te keuvelen… te bomen…te kussen…te lachen…. Te zwijgen… Alle fietstochten herinner ik me nog… het slenteren door de straten van London,...