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A bit longer post on my thinking, approach and development, 

What is your focus? Body, mind, spirit… work, love. How to live with a clean past and passionate future?

The SOIL-method  was developed by me 25 years ago. and serves as the basis of my work and perception. I provide certified SOIL trainings: practitioners/Masters/trainer. My work and life are based on:

  • the empowerment of the US;
  • the intuition of the East;
  • the knowledge of the West;
  • the history of the Middle East;
  • the magic of the South
  • the strength of the universe

SOIL means earth, the basis where everything begins: here we have to show it tangibly. At the same time we respect the enormous miracle that life is. We are space and we give space a color. Our passion is our driving force which lies in our intuition and our skills are to pay attention to it. There is always a cooperation between the interpretation, the development, the result and the share ability.


Designing the knowledge which is in your life. (Neuro)psychology, NLP, remote viewing, philosophy, spirituality, marketing, quantum physics, communication, business models, fashion, dietetics, ecology, etc. The great amount knowledge which leads to wellbeing, pride, quality of life, luck, and the feeling of bonding by sharing with the rest of the world.


This is about how you choose. In connection with: “If you know why you want something, is every how quite simple”. The integration and exploration of present techniques to know: How do I choose? How can I sharpen my view? Ergo, communicating with your body, mind, with your environment and the universe.


How you are perceiving and how you share information. The transformation. “Who is the thinker behind your thoughts?” Everything about the development of connections you make with yourself and with your environment. How you perceive and what can be perceived.


The recognizable translation into your life. Just an experienced and a tangible result will be worthy. No vague theories but tangible results and behaviour in your life. Your specific successes and creative

You need to be an explorer. Then again what you frame limits your perception. If you do not identify you are spaced out. What a lovely paradox. 


Intuition is  THE  part of SOIL….  

SOIL is the fundament of all my workshops, seminars and coaching. University smart and street wise. Worked in lots of fields as a consultant/coach . Triggered by what the reference of people (lets say justification)  of their actions, perceptions is ever since I was 10 years old. I started to read and study, observe and write. ‘People Rationalise and hold their rationalisation for ‘The Reality”.  One of the transmitters is INTUITION.

As you might know what often is called intuition, is in essence the translation of our experiences. Subliminal communication/perception that has taken place in neurological networks, organs, brains… where ever.  I really love Harry Stack Sullivan, whom I started to read when I was 18 …you might recognise Kierkegaard in his words:

Parataxic distortion is a psychiatric term  to describe the inclination to skew perceptions of others based on fantasy. The “distortion” is a faulty perception of others, based not on actual experience with the other individual, but on a projected fantasy personality attributed to the individual. For example, when one falls in love, an image of another person as the “perfect match” or “soul mate” can be created when in reality, the other person may not live up to these expectations or embody the imagined traits at all.

The fantasy personality is created in part from past experiences and from expectations as to how the person “should be”, and is formulated in response to emotional stress. This stress can originate from the formation of a new relationship, or from cognitive dissonance required to maintain an existing relationship. Parataxic distortion serves as an immature cognitive defense mechanism against this psychological stress and is similar to transference.

Parataxic distortion is difficult to avoid because of the nature of human learning and interaction. Stereotyping of individuals based on social cues and the classification of people into groups is a commonplace cognitive function of the human mind. Such pigeonholing allows for a person to gain a quick, though possibly inaccurate, assessment of an interaction. The cognitive processes employed, however, can have a distorting effect on the clear understanding of individuals. In essence, one can lose the ability to “hear the other” through one’s own projected beliefs of what the other person is saying.


A bit more text but it is nice.  Do not want to be too scientific…. then again want to mention Rupert Sheldrake, morphic resonance. Frans de Waal on perception and the sense of Destiny that animals have. There are beings that put us in line with Animals, other believe in one or another higher energy or being. For sure there are frequencies and waves in space and on earth.

Our Beta state of perception limits us to be in the now as well as it rarely step out of our believe system… that stays on the level of klick-zoom. stimulus response. We can change, perceive new… hard is it with the people surrounding us …  ‘they’ ‘Know’ us… and keep seeing us in the way they did. We are mostly, if we do not actively step out of it, prisoners of the expectation of other based on pure fantasy and hallucinations. 

The SOIL method is based on the idea that real intuition is a powerful tool that will help you to make better decisions, improve your relationships and find greater fulfilment in life. One of the main principles of the method.  One of the main principles of the SOIL method is the idea that we need to ‘decondition’ / dehypnotize yourselves in order to connect with our intuition. You have been conditioned by society and our upbringing to think and act in certain ways, which can prevent us from accessing our intuition and inner wisdom.

By de-conditioning your self you can break free from these limiting patterns and believes and gain deeper understanding about learning to love oneself and others.

In this ways you can gain deeper connection with the universe, the world around you and your place in it.

The SOIL method emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, self-love and encourages to embrace the holistic approach to any kind of personal development. The method is meant to be an holistic approach that helps individuals to connect with their inner wisdom, improve their relationships and find greater fulfilment in life.

 The Science of Intuitive Living: Unlocking Your True Potential

Have you ever felt like you were meant for something more in life, but couldn’t quite figure out what it was or how to get there? Do you find yourself making choices that seem to keep you stuck in the same patterns and routines, even when you know deep down that they aren’t serving you?

If so, you might be interested in learning about the Science of Intuitive Living that is designed to help you tap into your intuition and unlock your true potential.

At its core, the Science of Intuitive Living is about using all available knowledge to make choices that align with your innermost desires and sense of purpose. It recognizes that we are all conditioned by our upbringing, society, and personal experiences, but it also believes that we have the power to transcend those limitations and design a life that is truly our own.

The first step in this process is learning how to access and trust your intuition. This can be challenging, especially if you’ve spent most of your life relying on logic and reason to make decisions. But with practice and guidance, you can learn to recognize the subtle signals and messages that your intuition sends you, and use them to make choices that are aligned with your true self.

The Science of Intuitive Living also draws on a wide range of other disciplines, including philosophy, art, and psychology, NLP, Quantum Communication. It recognizes that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to personal growth and development, and encourages you to explore different techniques and practices to find what works best for you.

Perhaps one of the most unique aspects of the Science of Intuitive Living is its emphasis on being “street wise” and “university smart.” This means that it values both practical experience and academic knowledge, and encourages you to seek out a diverse range of perspectives and insights.

So what are some of the benefits of practicing the Science of Intuitive Living? For one, it can help you break free from limiting beliefs and patterns that are holding you back. It can also give you a greater sense of clarity and purpose, as you learn to trust your inner guidance and make choices that are aligned with your values and aspirations.

Ultimately, the Science of Intuitive Living is about empowering you to live a life that feels fulfilling, meaningful, and true to who you really are. It’s not a quick fix or a one-time solution, but rather a lifelong journey of self-discovery and growth. If you’re ready to take the first step, consider attending a workshop or reading more about Cor van Leeuwen’s method to see if it resonates with you. Who knows what amazing opportunities and experiences await you once you start living intuitively!

Intuiting from a quantum physics perspective adds an exciting dimension to the Science of Intuitive Living. Quantum physics tells us that at the smallest level of matter, particles behave in ways that are seemingly random and unpredictable. This has led physicists to conclude that the nature of reality is not fixed and deterministic, but rather probabilistic and dependent on the observer’s perspective.

Intuition, which is often described as a gut feeling or a sense of knowing that goes beyond rational thought, could be seen as a form of quantum entanglement between our conscious and subconscious minds. When we tune into our intuition, we are tapping into a non-local, non-deterministic aspect of reality that is beyond our ordinary sense of time and space.

Moreover, some scientists have proposed that the brain operates on a quantum level, with neuronal networks capable of processing information in a non-linear, parallel fashion. This means that our intuition could be a result of quantum processes in the brain that allow us to perceive patterns and connections that are not immediately apparent to our conscious mind.

By exploring the intersection of intuition and quantum physics, we may gain a deeper understanding of the nature of reality and our place in it. We may also discover new ways of harnessing the power of intuition to achieve our goals and live more fulfilling lives.

In summary, looking at intuiting from a quantum physics perspective can give us a more profound appreciation of the power of intuition and its potential to help us navigate the complexities of life. It opens up new avenues for research and exploration, and may help us unlock the mysteries of consciousness and the nature of reality itself. 

Books like the Power of the Now, The Secret, The Field, next to psychiatry and philosophy are perhaps steps. Life is a one time event. Realise that Rapport, real connecting, is a fulfilling step to create new nows… new experiences… also to rediscover your true self with Vuja dé (what have not you noticed that was there. I see life as a project plan organisation. You need to create new projects, tangible and serving. It is obvious :’People without a focus Perish’. You need a prophetic vision. Serving yourself and others. To rediscover and use your real intuition gives you the connection, the meaning that makes you young whilst perceiving as an old soul through contemporary thin messages / communication. Reconnection to the myth and build your heritage. Life is a mystery, the softness of your senses makes you experience to full power and essence of life. Feel whole.