If you frame me you deny me
Or with Kierkegaard (1848)
Once you Label Me, You NegateÂ meâ€¦
Framing and labeling is for Children of a lesser Godâ€¦ As is ordering somebody else what to doâ€¦hence my resistance against politicians and newspaper peopleâ€¦
There are people who chew on words from othersâ€¦or their selftalk that Â is not serving them but hurting their system. Words are not so much a reflection of reality as an elicitation of a certain part â€¦neglecting the total picture.
Dreams and nightmares start more or less with the same process. Just a little selection of words to open consciousness on how to approach perception.
Dr. Benjamin Spockâ€¦(Babyâ€™s and child care, 1946) â€˜You know more than you thinkâ€™ throws a supposed consciousness in our faceâ€¦ that all of us would have the drive to realize and accelerate â€¦ A mindset created just after WW II adopting the idea that society is the world and you are responsible for controlling the elements of perception and development.
Korzybski (science and Sanity, 1933): The Map is not the territory â€¦words are seldom the item they describe â€¦ also plays with notion of awareness on a relationship levelâ€¦
To have a certain kind of communication we need identifications where we agree uponâ€¦ at the same moment we know that content is context dependedâ€¦ that every timeframe and point of viewÂ (point of you â€¦ perception) colors phenomenology or metabletica (the psychological analysis of human nature as affected by historical change… Jan Hendrik van den Berg)
Poetry opens doors for charm and freedom in variety.
Life is simple when you generalize. It is passionate when you serve somebody on a specific levelâ€¦ mostly being in Rapport is staying in your own interpretation of what is really make you exited.
Lets take ice as an example. â€˜I love iceâ€¦, do youâ€¦?â€™ The other one can surprise you with their interpretation of what you mean by â€˜iceâ€™. Ice-cream? Italian ice? Russian? Or Skating Ice? Glacier Ice? Ice cubesâ€¦? And so onâ€¦
The conversation is quite a bit more difficult of you address: â€˜I love the Russian vanilla ice on the Red square in Moscow at the beginning of the Square the little Green Colored shopâ€¦â€™. Most often the other cannot log on to what you visualize.
Any word, thought, feeling we share can only be a bridge for a connection if we accept that ambiguity is the basic rule of thumbâ€¦ rapport the essence beginning to develop the depth of the relationship.
The whole is more than the sum of theÂ partsÂ â€¦ says Fritz Perls
there is importance of viewing humans as whole rather than a sum of discretely parts
We tempt to thinkâ€¦ we â€˜need to be somebodyâ€™. According to whom? For whom?
What is this â€˜to beâ€™ exactly? There are cases where random others (â€¦) state that â€˜you have no personalityâ€™â€¦ what the f..k is happeningâ€¦?
It is all fluid, the world is. Any connection, any relationship is circling
Still there has been more than an attempt or 2 to identify what is.
This identifying thing is obviously bothering me
The new , mostly I must sayâ€¦ not very well educated in the history of anythingâ€¦., people who want to live in the â€˜nowâ€™ and want to (in state a )â€˜awareâ€™ loose themselves in identification.
â€˜I am Vegan and love myselfâ€™ hence the t-shirt on her body seems to say it all.
â€˜who the f..ck cares what youâ€™r eating habits are and that you masturbate a lotâ€™, would be a possible reply
So when you eat somewhere in your perception isâ€¦ fat-not fat, healthy or not, a zag dayâ€¦ only now;Â how did the animal grow up?. Is the weed from an honest governed country?Â Â Â Al things that distract your attention from the eating thing itself.Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â
So funny today. This woman says: I am studying Aristoteles and Kantâ€¦., it is fascinating how much of their ideas are still very much relevantâ€¦
The old Greek locked society in the Value thing. Aristoteles forced is in structure and process.
As a whole in the framework of â€˜psycheâ€™ and â€˜Poleisâ€™
remarkable enough lots of people still take that all serious
Also a few weeks ago
Der sterbende Sokrates. â€” Ich bewundere die Tapferkeit und Weisheit des Sokrates in Allem, was er tat, sagte â€” und nicht sagte. Dieser spÃ¶ttische und verliebte Unhold und RattenfÃ¤nger Athens, der die Ã¼bermÃ¼tigsten JÃ¼nglinge zittern und schluchzen machte, war nicht nur der weiseste SchwÃ¤tzer, den es gegeben hat: er war ebenso groÃŸ im Schweigen. Ich wollte, er wÃ¤re auch im letzten Augenblicke des Lebens schweigsam gewesen, â€” vielleicht gehÃ¶rte er dann in eine noch hÃ¶here Ordnung der Geister. War es nun der Tod oder das Gift oder die FrÃ¶mmigkeit oder die Bosheit â€” irgend Etwas lÃ¶ste ihm in jenem Augenblick die Zunge und er sagte: “Oh Kriton, ich bin dem Asklepios einen Hahn schuldig”. Dieses lÃ¤cherliche und furchtbare “letzte Wort” heiÃŸt fÃ¼r Den, der Ohren hat: “Oh Kriton,Â das Leben ist eine Krankheit!” Ist es mÃ¶glich! Ein Mann, wie er, der heiter und vor Aller Augen wie ein Soldat gelebt hat, â€” war Pessimist! Er hatte eben nur eine gute Miene zum Leben gemacht und zeitlebens sein letztes Urteil, sein innerstes GefÃ¼hl versteckt! Sokrates, Sokrates hatÂ am Leben gelitten! Und er hat noch seine Rache dafÃ¼r genommen â€” mit jenem verhÃ¼llten, schauerlichen, frommen und blasphemischen Worte! Musste ein Sokrates sich auch noch rÃ¤chen? War ein Gran GroÃŸmut zu wenig in seiner Ã¼berreichen Tugend? â€” Ach Freunde! Wir mÃ¼ssen auch die Griechen Ã¼berwinden!
What are words but weaponsâ€¦? â€˜He who lives by the sword shall perish by the swordâ€¦?â€™
Prophecies hunting for fearâ€¦ calling for attention?
On the other hand words are simple means for shaping a focus in a certain moment
If you take words as tour guides the choice what to do with them remains yours.
Quote mining and all kind of quotations shape imaginary personalities â€¦ words might become thingsâ€¦therefor actionsâ€¦
Our society as such is based on communication. Theories, science, economics, Â religionsâ€¦ everything is in-for-mation always open for new formationsâ€¦. New formatsâ€¦Mostly instructionsâ€¦
Remarkable that words often are used as closure mechanism to frame â€¦
As Nietzsche saysâ€¦ it is about time to leave the Greek behindâ€¦we are dimensions furtherâ€¦ there is a completely new universe not only with focus on the human factor in the so called societyâ€¦
At the same time we realize that the boundaries are set by â€˜fact checksâ€™â€¦. Where we know that content is context depended â€¦ conservatives elicit words out of their context to chain Â many â€¦ to frame the difference between attitude and wordsâ€¦ between dreams and descriptionâ€¦ between self and public.
The world becomes a zooâ€¦ controlled nature â€¦ institutionalized behavior, rooms divided and blending emptiness when words are taken literally to create a prison identity
When 2 people like each other .. are in rapportâ€¦ it does not matter what they say how
When one of the 2 is out of rapport with himself/herself (mostly living without a clear drive or focus) they become polarity responders â€¦meaning that everything is questioned as if standing on its own.. so no relationship â€¦therefor no content acceptedâ€¦
Educate your DNA. Realise beauty, elegance…
Transform information into directing a mutual focus SERVEÂ