The lightness of being or the existence- weighsâ€¦
So moveâ€¦. How do we accelerate out of discomfortâ€¦into happinessâ€¦?
In simple German : how do I stay happy and avoid hanging around in unhappiness to long
Do not confuse unhappiness with experiencing the intensity of life emotions that really belong to lifeâ€¦. Like sorrow, grief, angerâ€¦. But for everything is a certain timeframe and it should not be foreverâ€¦
Personally I detest the â€˜be optimisticâ€™ statements â€¦mostly that is lack of empathy and informationâ€¦ and trust me I am as much future and creation driven as can be.
First of allâ€¦ as painful as it may sound. As hard as it is â€¦. to get it into our system. There are people with completely different sets of â€˜moralâ€™ valuesâ€¦.where honesty, justice, upbringing are not the subject they are guided by. A family with 4 childrenâ€¦ not in school, extremely aggressive, steelingâ€¦. Mother aloneâ€¦. Steelingâ€¦ still she sees the outside world as criminals and insane. God knows what to do with such people. They mostly find their own peer-group with obvious the same kind of behaviorâ€¦. Isolate themselves â€¦ live partly from social servicesâ€¦. Teachers are wrong, employers are wrong, neighbors are wrong and so on. To go short criminals. That might also be the white colored so called well educated onesâ€¦ it can happen in many places in very different places in societyâ€¦We might whisper that many politicians belong to the group who have lost their heart and only focus on their jobâ€¦ there are no feeling of passion or sense of justice â€¦ a cultivated act that they really â€˜believeâ€™ in themselves. It is like football-supporters who hang in front of the t.v. so often that they believe they can play the game themselves.
History has shown terrible examples of stupidity and insanity. It is therefor lightly to understand that psychology and philosophy in the 19e century came to its existence in the way it did. If your basic believe is that â€˜people have positive intentions and are â€˜goodâ€™â€™â€¦ the focus will be on excuses and explanationsâ€¦ even therapy to bring them back to sanity as you believe it good be.
So that being stated that we can encounter criminals at any levelâ€¦. it stays our focus to â€˜kill the dragon when it is smallâ€™â€¦ follow another route as soon as you notice that there is something fishy about the communication you encounter isolation is the only way to get rid of this scum. Free yourself from being the analyst or psychologist for insane egocentric behavior that does not serve you and does not make you happy. As you notice I use strong words as I believe it is vitally important to leave ego’s that want ‘correct’ you instead of serving you.
History now had made clear shit will hit the fanâ€¦question is how to go along with it.Â Another important lesson to learn is the influence of the peer-group you have. The more positive and better the peer group the better your life is. Let it be one filled with love and understanding.
Having stated all this, let us restart and refocus â€¦ we are here instructing based on another theme
In itself it is pretty worrying that many people have the obsession with the urge of defining any situation where you are in.Â As an art of participating observationâ€¦. (Margarethe Mead) where we loose momentum and the essence of the nowâ€¦ seeing say our experienceâ€¦is down the drain with their analyses.
But ok. We are just exploring some fields of perceptions and ways of acting as they were and areâ€¦ from a wider distanceâ€¦ less into the momentsâ€¦ more into the playâ€¦ as Shakespeare saysâ€¦ the world is a stageâ€¦. Me myself addâ€¦ it is a playâ€¦. Adapt to your role and be playful. Â
There are people who state that any situation is a beginning or signal for new behavior..
Very much a therapeutic approach to lifeâ€¦ a life long learningâ€¦. .. if there are enough observers there is always something to find that â€˜theyâ€™ see as room for â€˜improvementâ€™. being happy and grateful makes it easier..
Simple happiness and being satisfied â€¦..is overruled by this obsession.
There are, typical 70 ties, books full of definitions about when one is â€˜happyâ€™ or â€˜satisfiedâ€™ . in groups and at university they put long definitions on paperâ€¦ these were over taken by psychologist and mean-whilst part of our sub liminal awareness.Â Terrorism does not start just like thatâ€¦
Contrary to how i approach life â€¦ here I want to change â€¦ or set so you willâ€¦ your mindset
Delete negative people and the so called social sciences that dominated many lives from 1800 on forward
the lightness of being or the existence- weighsâ€¦ for a lot of people
we want to address the lightness of being. The soft loving lightnessâ€¦
Our purpose, ideology and meaning is to make /let â€¦us experience the cool part of living say
the miracle that life is
One part of you as always a connection â€¦ a wire so you want â€¦to the unknown energy fieldâ€¦what we do not directly perceive with our senses but that influences usâ€¦. Without us knowing the direction
i know as you know there are framersâ€¦ the people who purposely try Â to install pressure, fear and negativityâ€¦ it might be theories that are based on â€˜theirâ€™ visionâ€¦it is all o.k. except when you see and feel your world get smaller
the guidelines Â for a world worth living in are simple
- Does what you perceive make you happy
- Is it entertaining
- Do you experience growth
The self-observation that psychology (psychiatry) forced into our livesâ€¦ together with the 19e century philosophy, political â€“ economic- society (laws) orientation have made our world smaller and directed many peopleâ€™s perception on â€˜earthlyâ€™ issues with all Â kind of useless assumptions
Look at history in at somewhat wider perceptive. Every time has its own identityâ€¦ books, musicâ€¦ lecturesâ€¦ butâ€¦ realize that any other is not more than youâ€¦ you have the ability and the potential to create your own world and identityâ€¦ you do not need to let others direct your universe
Ok ok, it sounds complex if you want to understand it.. every moment has so many elements, perceptions â€¦ so many distractionsâ€¦ opinionsâ€¦. Next to that your own experiencesâ€¦
So the content is very seldom the part to shareâ€¦ it is the context that we can create.. the party that makes us celebrateâ€¦
If Â you want to shareâ€¦. Be inspired and share your inspirationâ€¦ your skillsâ€¦ your excitement
Of Â course there is conceptual art many more elements you could take into accountâ€¦ the power is to limit the field. It is like a menu chard. Limiting the ingredient stimulates the creativityâ€¦ choose a theme
That is an issueâ€¦ it is simply complexâ€¦. Our attention span is very very poorly. Easily distractedâ€¦ lots of â€˜newâ€™ impulses surround and attract us
One of the steps to enjoy the weigh of lightnessÂ is Emotional State Controlâ€¦ there means are
Â Â Decondition:
Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Understanding pattern and values (Beliefs, etc.)
Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Feel: here you install new pattern with
- Physical patterns
- Giving it meaning to what you do
- For yourself
- For environment
- Core: sharing experiencesâ€¦
- Knowable at the deepest level
- Create more new nowâ€™s â€¦ turn them into habits that you sense in every cell with excitement and pleasure.
- Repeat proud behavior in different contexts
- Step in and out of anything (basic believe) that keeps (kept) you in trance
- We have been part of the self-doubting generationâ€¦. Where good people like you have been forced into self-analyses because of lesser Gods with a bigger ego
- Notice, with every sense, the beauty of tranceâ€¦ with paintings, music, landscapes, architecture, food, dancing, clothing â€¦ everything that touches your soul
- You are the designer of your life do not make it bigger or smaller let it be what it is.
- Gratitude turns what you have into enough